Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Update + friends...

This weekend I finally finished my exams in English. I'll get the results in about two weeks and I can't wait. I quit my job, because I had to be in the club every day of the week because of the meetings and such, but I got payed for one night only. And they wanted me to go out with the guests in my free time, in order to make them come to the club just because of me... In other words to make them regulars. No way I was gonna do that. So now I don't work and I don't study. I'm looking for a job, but it might take some time to find one. In the meantime I'll write more and go out with my friends, which is in fact great. And talking about friends, I must admit mine are very interesting.

Day before yesterday I went out with them and my sister. The guys were asking us girls about all kinds of things, what do girls generally like and dislike. I'm just gonna write all the questions and answers I can remember:
Q: Do you like when guy approaches you or not?
A: Of course we do! It shows us that he's confident and that's cool.
Q: And if you say no to that guy, does that really means no?
A: No means no. Always. We're not playing hard to get, we just dislike you if we say no.
Q: And there is no way that, after you get to know someone, that no can become yes?
A: If we aren't attracted sexually to that person that will never happen. The worst thing is when your friend or even best friend says that he likes you more than just a friend. (I personally lost a few great friends because of that)
Q: So it's better to say how you feel in the beginning than to wait and hope things will change and she would like you more?
A: Yes. You should say everything in the beginning.
Q: And if the guy that approached you is drunk, how would you react?
A: We would just tell him to go away and that we aren't interested.
Q: And if he isn't drunk but smells like beer?
A: It depends on a lot of things. Whether he's hot or not, whether we like him, whether he's funny...

I cant remember other questions, but they were similar to these. The last question was the most interesting and the answer was different for every girl. They asked what did we think about them when we first met and who did we like the most. Naturally, we made them to tell us first. I already knew what my ex (Jerk) thought. He was attracted to me, but he was sure I was never gonna agree to be with him. He said that I was like queen bee, It girl, the most popular girl whose boyfriend is a hot football player. He wasn't far from the truth, but I liked him so we hooked up anyway. None of the other girls liked him, let alone liked, liked him.

One guy (from now on known as Mr. Nice) said that he liked me most and perhaps one more girl. I was very surprised to hear that. We used to go to school together when we were little. We weren't friends back then and we haven't seen each other for ages. I always assumed he thought of me as the girl who he went to school with. I had no idea that he liked me. When we met (for the second time) he was already my friends ex (they stayed friends and that's how all of us met). In the meantime he hooked up with that other girl who he liked besides me. (The third guys choice was also her.) I don't know if he still likes me. However, I know that my sister likes him. And she's gonna make a move pretty soon. And he is a hot guy. (And his zodiac sign is cancer and ascendant lion, just like my ex who was the first and hopefully the last who dumped me.) In other words, I like him, which is crazy and bad and horrible.

Since other guys weren't there it was our turn. My answer to that question was that I liked everybody. Every single one of them has something that I like. They are all taller than me, which is the most important for me. I've never been with someone smaller than me. And I've hooked up with a lot of guys. Anyways, some of my guy friends are extremely hot, well most of them are. They are all smart and funny. I always wonder how did they found each other. I would be with every single one of them. And there are five of them. Well, four actually. I would never be with Jerk again.



One time, all of us were at my house and we were celebrating orthodox (Serbian) new year which is on the 13th January. And after a lot of drinking we started playing Spin the bottle. Not all of us were there, 3 guys (two from the text above, not my ex) and 5 girls (3 friends, my sister and I). We ended up kissing each other, spanking,  and doing all kinds of things (there was no nudity involved). There was girl on girl kissing involved, which was nothing new for us girls, but the boys went crazy. We even persuaded two of the guys to kiss for 30seconds. It was priceless. To sum up, I kissed 3 out of 5. One of them is the worst kisser ever, but best looking compared to other four. Life isn't fair.
That's it from me for now...
Peace and out!

2 comments:

  1. I must admit,interesting post lady...Your words made me remember of one person...Guys asked pretty much everything but they forgot the essential one...What when all popularity,hotness,relationships and everything becomes pointless...What about love?Cause i met a lot of so called "hot" ladies that believed in more than "girls just wanna have fun".Hope youre having a great day.

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  2. I say that you should embrace love when you find it and don't let go. :) Thanks for the comment! Have a nice day!

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